When I tell people how I spent the Queen’s Birthday
weekend this year, the most common reaction is ‘What the heck is "Slutwalk"?’
Read on if you'd like to know......
Slutwalk is a protest against our legal system’s
treatment of those who are sexually assaulted. Alongside a large group of
others in their fishnets and corsets, I strutted through the streets of
Sydney, figuratively giving the finger to those who would judge us on our
manner of dress.
The first Slutwalk was organised earlier this year in
Toronto, Canada, after a police officer told a group of female university
students that they could avoid being sexually assaulted if they "didn’t
dress like sluts". This ignorant attitude is perpetuated daily, and it’s
high time we turned it around. Research clearly shows that sex offenders
do not target victims according to the clothes they wear, but rather by
their vulnerability. Sex offenders target victims when they perceive an
opportunity to manipulate them, by force or coercion, into a situation
where they will be uninterrupted by witnesses.
I myself am a survivor of childhood sexual assault. In a
trial earlier this year, the alleged offender (someone from outside the
family) was found not guilty of over 30 counts of child sex offences.
There was overwhelming evidence, found by police in this pervert’s
bedroom, to prove I was telling the truth & justify the police
prosecution. He confessed to police, and his legal team even offered a
diminished guilty plea. We chose not to accept it and the case went to
trial. What they were offering would have amounted to slap on the wrist
and a very short custodial sentence, if any. This "man" should be spending
the rest of his life in jail, where he can’t perpetrate against anyone
else’s children. But of course, to ensure a "fair trial", the jury
couldn’t hear about his offers of a guilty plea, or of his prior criminal
conviction for violence against women (and, of course, the intrinsic
design of our wonderful legal system ensures that he did not even have to
take the stand, nor be questioned in court in any way about any of the
offences)
Before this I had always had
faith in the legal system; I believed in the concept of justice. But after
ten days of giving evidence, all my faith in our legal system was gone.
Shamefully, the defence barrister was allowed to question me about
"how provocative" my manner of dress was as a fourteen year old girl. I
was questioned about my album ‘Jailbait’
and its associated logo. I was questioned about whether professional
photographs of me from my website were provocative. I was portrayed as a
sexually precocious thirteen year old who willfully seduced a man in his
forties. What a load of bullshit! I was outraged, not only for myself, but
for the 1400 other survivors who go through this every year in NSW alone.
Sexual assault is an especially heinous crime. It’s also
the easiest crime of all to get away with, and the predators that commit
these crimes know this. Currently, in the NSW District Court, 80% of
‘alleged’ child sex offenders are found not guilty.
As a parent, I find this an alarming statistic. Our
police do not press charges in this type of crime unless they are
absolutely certain an offence has been committed. Keep in mind that only a
small amount of victims ever come forward, and only a fraction of these
cases ever go to trial. There is only one way to explain it; sex offenders
are getting away with their crimes. The legal system is failing us all -
survivors, parents, and our community as a whole.
My song ‘Jailbait’
is based on some of my experiences as a child. Little was I to know that
art would imitate life, as per my lyrics:
Judge just set you walkin’ free,
when he took one long look at me
As it turns out, in reality that's exactly what
happened. That the jury has very strong belief of guilt is simply not good
enough under the current system. Juries are instructed by Judges that they
must, beyond all reasonable doubt, be able to prove that each & every
charge can be proven beyond all reasonable doubt....something astoundingly
difficult to do when physical evidence is often not freely available.
I’m on a mission to end this appalling treatment of
sexual assault victims in the legal system. We must stop blaming the
victims and start punishing the offenders. How can you help? More details
to come soon.....